Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. Those of us who are single often feel that the holiday
is the perfect day to arrange a first date and hopefully strike up a romance. The problem is that
some of us are so fixated on connecting romantically, that we sometimes overlook basic first-
date safety measures and will find ourselves in a dangerous situation.
Drive Separately
These days, most of us go on first dates with people we don’t actually know. In many cases, it’s
an internet connection that sounds interesting. No matter how nice and trustworthy that person
might sound during your virtual conversations, you need to remember that you don’t fully know
them. One of the best ways you can keep yourself safe is making sure that each of you drives
separately to your Valentine’s Day date location.
Driving does more than simply prevent you from being located in a small space where you have
very little control over things with a person you don’t know well. It also provides you with an
easy and accessible means of escape if the date doesn’t go well.
If you don’t have your own car, use an Uber/cab/bus to get to the location.
Tell Your Friends About Your Plans
Secret first dates sound fun and exciting, especially on Valentine’s Day. The other nice thing
about secret first dates is that you don’t have to fill your friends and family members in on all of
the details if the date turns out to be a dud.
The problem with secret Valentine’s Day dates is that if no one knows where you are or what
you’re doing, they won’t know that you could be in trouble. Let at least one trusted person know
where you’re going and who your Valentine’s Day date is. They will provide this information to
the police if something goes wrong.
Meet in Public
Your Valentine’s Day date doesn’t have to be in a noisy club or even a secluded forest glen. It
should be in a public place where people can step in if things don’t go the way you like. If you
start to feel uncomfortable during the date, alert someone who is nearby and they can help
extract you from the situation.
Never Leave a Drink Unattended
Always keep an eye on your drink. You don’t want your date or anyone else who is nearby, to
slip anything into it. If you have to leave your drink, order a new one. Don’t finish the one that
was left by itself.
Let Someone Know When You Make it Home Safely
Let the friend/family member you told about the date know that you’ve made it home and are
safe. This is a great opportunity to discuss your Valentine’s Day date and decide if this is a
person you’re interested in seeing again.
What are your plans for this Valentine’s Day?